Monday, June 2, 2008

boys and men!

Guys what are you doing to grow up! what are you doing to prepare your self! what have you done to better yourself for the future! if you can answer these good if not maybe you should start! hey we all have problems, we all have demons, and that extra baggage that wont leave... I'm not saying I'm all perfect either I'm still growing too... but do i think i have some what of a handle on life yes a bit... but its not me saying it its other people. My boss trust me to run a truck by my self, to sell the job, even run the business when hes gone! my Dad and I have come along way, in what I do and what he lets me do. they both trust me to make the right choices, to do the right thing. trust and respect are earned and maintained! not something to play with! One of the best things a young man can do is find a buddy, Dad, close companion(a guy) who they can start to build a good, strong, relationship, built on Christ. They hold each other up, carry the other when weak, strikes the blow when the friend needs a "wake up call" Some one to be truthful with. And the biggy to start Praying with them every day about anything, problems that come up..... I pray with 3 other guys each morning, and they in turn pray with others, Ive been trying them to grow with more people... It is a great blessing to us all
try it!

"money" how much are you spending! how much are saving.... hey there is a lot out there that we all want lol I want things too! but how are we using GOD'S money that HE has entrusted us with? uh! are you a hard worker will you support your family, or are you Lazy! "money don't grow on trees!" lol but its True you may think that your bringing in a lot of money now! but wait till your married, your bills keep coming, house, gas, food! its all there to eat that money right up! Debt what are you views on that? You should have plans to get out of Debt as soon as possible.... granted things happen, jobs, and stuff but what are you doing to prepare!

Being a Leader! can you lead your family! teach them the true word of God, teach your child to obey, to love, to follow God.... can you be the head of the house! "With great power, comes Great responsibility" the bible says we will be judge by the way we raise our family. we should strive to be the servant, yes its hard, I know I get tired and worn out... but we must push on. How we treat our sisters and Mom will greatly Reflect how we treat our wives! do we care and love for them, hold doors, look out for their interest more then our selves!

The way we act! granted we may act different then others, or not come over as this or that. But are we acting Mature, grown up? How would God be standing next to you( cause he is!) yes we can laugh and play. but there's a lot to being more mature then those around you! our world does not want to grow up, to take responsibility of their actions. but we Must, they are ours to command!


For Me I strive to better my self, with what i put into my head, ( what goes in, comes out and shows the true man!) work hard, save for the future. build a money plan, run my own business, buying rental properties, ect. ect these are things I'm working on now, think money wise, down the road , money for children. build a better relationship with God. become more giving of my self, humble, a servant... the way you look at a girl... like a sister! how do you treat her? hey some time it can come across wrong or "Whats wrong with him" lol but wheres the heart at... bible studies learning more, memorising verses... mom keeps telling me more books I should read... the list never ends.... and many other things great and small... it all leads up to the future becoming who we are, what we are! I could go on and on, I probably didn't say all I should say mmm or to much lol so Strive on boys and become the Men we should Be.
What are you doing?

1 comment:

The Hill's said...

I love you Daniel.
Mom